Hurray!!! Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde is 37 today. Happy Birthday to her.

Today is  our own Omotola, Omosexy's birthday.

Omotola is 37 today, She has inspired the lives of many.

She is a mother, wife, model, singer, actress,  philanthropist.

 

Presdiency propose to spend 517.9m on food and refreshment

News from Punchng has it that the Federal Government proposed to spend   N517.9m   this year on meals and refreshments   for the Presidency, the Office of the Secretary to the Government of the Federation, ministries of power and petroleum as well as their parastatals.

This was revealed in their 2015 budget breakdown. The   N517.9m proposal for refreshments and meals is 42.9 per cent or N158.94m higher than the   N359.94m approved for the offices and the MDAs   in 2014 .

Out of the N517.9m,   a provision of N174.54m was made for refreshments and meals for the State House   in 2015. The   N174.64m, according to the budget, is 7.4 per cent or N11.98m higher than the N162.55m approved in 2014.

Just imagine!

Despite all that is going on presently, what Our Dear President and his cohort can think of is to increase their food budget.

Diaris God ooooo!!!

Toke Makinwa blasted by Azuka Ogujinba

This day's Azuka Ogujinba blasts Toke Makinwa and calls her fake in her recent column.

Azuka is known as someone that goes against celebrities; few years ago she blasted D'banj and now she goes all out against Toke. 

She tagged the article “The Good, Bad and Ugly of 2014 Headies Awards”

Read it below:

She obviously loves the limelight; she enjoys being called and seen as a celebrity, and she loves the good life of being a star, which sincerely is not a crime and it is equally her business anyway.

For me as a journalist, if I am to pick any of the known on-air personalities to interview then Toke Makinwa will never make number 50 on my list because I don’t know what she wants to tell the world about her career and personal life again.

Her life is practically on the social network but it is truly her choice. There is no doubt that she works hard and can be aggressive. She probably wants to be the most popular radio personality and, of course, probably has to add the ‘fake it till you make it’ attitude into everything she does. Her strategy is working for her. I actually used to think Toke was loved and revered by her fans until she co-hosted the 2014 HEADIES awards.

Initially, I thought she had butterflies in her stomach, because I have been a victim before, when I had to present an award to the family of the late Dagrin, who died a month before the award in 2010. When I saw the crowd watching me on stage I was scared and immediately become dumb, I was so overwhelmed by stage fright that D1 came to my rescue. Through that short time the crowd booed me off the stage, and it should be worse for a wanna-be celebrity like Toke whom I used to think has more fans than the likes of Funke Akindele, Tu face, Geneveive Nnaji and co, because that is how Toke Makinwa rates herself. Maybe she thinks she falls in the category of A-list celebrities. Well, to some people she might be.

Read it below

Dr. Frederickson's tells us things we need to know about on love

Making Eye Contact Is a Key Gateway for Love

Your body has the built-in ability to "catch" the emotions of those around you, making your prospects for love -- defined as micro-moments of positivity resonance -- nearly limitless. As hopeful as this sounds -- wouldn't limitless love be great? -- Dr. Frederickson also noted that people often short-circuit this natural ability by not making eye contact with the other person. Meeting eyes is a key gatekeeper to neural synchrony.

It Can Be Hard to Talk about Love in Scientific Terms

The vision of love that emerges from the latest science requires a radical shift. Dr. Frederickson learned to ask people to leave love as they knew it to consider it from a different perspective: their body's perspective. Love is not romance, sexual desire, or that special bond you feel with family or significant others.
And perhaps most challenging of all, love is neither lasting nor unconditional. The radical shift we need to make is this: love, as your body experiences it, is a micro-moment of connection shared with another.

Love Is Not Exclusive

We tend to think of love and loved ones at the same time, and perhaps as even the same thing. When you take these to be only your circle of family and friends, you inadvertently limit opportunities for health, growth and well-being.
You can experience micro-moments of connection and positivity with anyone -- whether with your soul mate or a stranger. You can love far more, and far more often, than you thought.

Love Doesn't Belong to One Person

We tend to think of emotions as private events, confined to one person's mind and skin. Upgrading our view of love to Love 2.0 leaves that perspective behind. Evidence suggests that when you really "click" with someone else, a discernible yet momentary synchrony emerges between the two of you, as your gestures and biochemistries, even your respective neural firings, come to mirror one another in a pattern Dr. Frederickson calls "positivity resonance." Love is "a biological wave of good feeling and mutual care that rolls through two or more brains and bodies at once."

Love Fortifies the Connection between Your Brain and Your Heart Health

Decades of research show that people who are more socially connected live longer and healthier lives. Yet precisely how social ties affect health has remained one of the great mysteries of science.
Dr. Frederickson's research team learned that when they made a random group of people learn ways to create more of these micro-moments of love in their daily lives, they lastingly improved the function of the vagus nerve, a key conduit that connects the brain to the heart. This discovery provides a new window into how micro-moments of love serve as nutrients for your health.

Your Immune Cells Reflect Your past Experiences of Love

Too often, you get the message that your future prospects hinge on your DNA. Yet the ways that your genes get expressed at the cellular level depends mightily on many factors, including whether you consider yourself to be socially connected or chronically lonely.
Dr. Frederick's team is now investigating the cellular effects of love, testing whether people who build more micro-moments of love in daily life also build healthier immune cells. It is possible that changing your daily habits can affect these fundamental aspects of your physiology.

Small Emotional Moments Can Have Large Biological Effects

Are you surprised that a micro-moment can have any lasting effect on your health and longevity? Dr. Frederickson has learned that there's an "upward spiral between your social and your physical well-being." A positive feedback loop, as it were, where each new level of health increases your own ability to love more, and in turn be healthier.

Take Good Care of a Loving Marriage

Far from being a single, steady thing, she began to see love as the consequence of all of these micro-moments of bonding and synchrony -- one that can only continue if they continue to generate those micro-bonding moments. 
This approach makes daily maintenance of the relationship all the more important.

Love and Compassion Can Be the Same

One important aspect of this re-imagining of love as micro-moments of connection, is divorcing it from necessarily positive feelings. They may well be positive, but a compassionate moment with a loved one who is stressed, in pain or upset is no less of a bond, no less of a moment. Love still consists of positive moments, but does not require the absence of the negative. 

Upgrade Your View of Love to 2.0

The latest science offers new lenses through which to see your every interaction. The people Dr. Frederickson interviewed for her book shared moving stories about how they used these micro-moments of positivity and connection to make big changes in their personal  personal and work lives.
One of the best practices I learned from this research is that when people take just a minute or so each day to think about whether they felt connected and attuned to others (and how they did), they began to reap the benefits of Love 2.0. You could start doing this today, having learned even just this much more about how love works.

Justin didn't buy the Jet ooo, he rented it.

About an hour ago, I posted that Justin Bieber bought a new Jet for Christmas but he seems he didn't but it.

Justin Bieber is said to have leased it.The 20 year old who is worthabout $200m shared photos of the jet which costs around $60m.

It was discovered that Justin merely chartered it for a Christmas flight from Canada to NYC. In other words ... just a really expensive Uber.

Justin captioned the pic ... "New jet for Christmas, and she's beautiful" -- making many of us to believe he'd just made the biggest purchase of his life. Anyways it looks cool

Justin Bieber buys new jet for christmas.

He posted this picture with the caption New jet for Christmas, and she's beautiful.

Justin Bieber just bought this jet and he shows it off on his instagram pag. The interior looks cool tho

Things to learn from your past relationship

Relationships are meant to come and go until we find the right one, when we experience break-ups we should not consider it as the end of life, though getting over a break-up is not usually so easy, but from every mistake there is always a lesson to learn. Those who think that they’ve wasted time with the wrong person are not right, because relationships also offer you opportunities to understand your past, your fears, your essence and what the meaning of the true love is. Love is not a simple thing. You need some time to learn how to love and value the relationship with your beloved. I hope this article will help you focus on your past and find the answers to all annoying questions that make you feel worried.

1. Everyone needs free space: Many people think that a true love means that they should spend 24 hours a day together with the person they love. Such schedule will make you lose your identity in a quite short period of time. Remember, everyone needs some free time and space to satisfy their personal needs and do things that make them feel alive. By all means, don’t let your identity die, because it will be difficult to bounce back.
2. The lust period is temporary This wonderful period usually makes you fly on the wings of love. When you are extremely happy, you spend hours dressing to impress your partner and talking about love till the dawn. Unfortunately, the period of butterflies in the stomach ends fast and amorousness turns into a real and adequate love. Love is the period when you are ready to share both good and bad with the person you love. Love really grows when you have no fear to lose and when you absolutely accept all pros and cons of your significant other
3. Other people don’t belong to you Nowadays we live in a democratic world where people are free and have equal rights and responsibilities. Moreover, we are free to express ourselves and lead an independent life. No matter how long you’ve been together, you should understand that the person you love isn’t your property. People who really love each other are committed to this beautiful feeling and treat each other with respect. Your love is your muse but not your possession. You cannot control the behavior and every step of your partner, because it will only break trust in your relationship. The only adequate thing you can do is to trust him and try to create common rules of commitment both of you should stick to.
4. Complete yourself I do agree that other people can improve you and fill your life with joy and wonderful colors, but you should realize that people will never complete you or live up to your expectations. There’s no need for validation from your partner. First of all, you should learn to cultivate self-love before you can share it with your beloved. Try to develop yourself until you find yourself confident and complete. It requires you to change your actions, thoughts, emotions and behaviors
5. Don’t even try to change your partner You can change many things in this world, but it’s almost impossible to change your partner’s outlook and habits. All you can do is to show the right path to your partner and if they have an internal desire to change, they’ll make a shift. A human psyche has the capacity to ignore things and ideas strongly imposed by others. This way your partner may achieve temporary improvements and then return to their casual habits again. If you cannot stand something in your partner, then you should shift your energy and react to the situation in a different way. It’s better to stay calm and respond everything in cold blood. 
6. Get rid of your inner conflicts Your attitude and behavior in your relationship can be the reflection of your fears and anxiety which reign in your sub consciousness. If you want to have a healthy relationship, you should start from healing your inner world from fears and conflicts. Plus, you need to do all possible things to boost your self-esteem. Begin to love yourself and you’ll be able to share your love with somebody else. 
7. Learn how to let go gracefully It seems that some relationships teach us how to honorably let go. After a considerable reflection on the opportunity to build a happy and healthy relationship, you may realize that this love doesn’t cost your time and energy to continue. Unhappy relationships teach you to struggle for happiness. Furthermore, you should use the opportunity to let go of the past in order to be able to find the true love of all your life and cultivate a long and loving relationship. Don’t become disheartened the next time you face a relationship break-up, because it may help you develop a new vision of the world and start a better relationship. Relationships are an important part of your personal development. Both happy and unhappy relationships help you grow and become an all-rounded person. You should be strong enough to overcome the pain and other challenges, if you want to be happy.

Sis Bimbo/Womanite

Official pictures from Ibinabo and Uche Egbuka's wedding

These are the official pictures from Ibinabo and Uche's wedding as promised. So sorry its coming late.

  

Omotola says anyone that tries to come between married couple should be jailed.

 

In a recent interview with Encomium magazine, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde, aka Omosexy said that anyone who comes between a married couple deserve to be jailed because that person is robbing the couple of their joy.   

Read what she says:

“I think it should be a crime for anyone to come in between a couple. I feel anybody that comes between a married couple be a man or woman should go to jail. Such a person is robbing the family of their joy. To me, it is a crime that is worse than stealing another person’s property” 

Painful realities of being the other woman.

No matter how we see it or even what the society calls it, being the other woman is something quite a number of women feel good doing and the fact that she is the other woman does not make her a whore, also it does not mean she has no feelings.


Being the other woman actually hurts.
Everyone has a way of stigmatizing the other woman and they have a right to but lets take a moment to walk in their shoes and see what they pass through.

6 truths about the other woman. 

• Most of them go into the relationship with the knowledge of who they are in the relationship.
• Feelings are invested in the relationship.
• They have their reasons for being in the relationship because it is believed what you know cannot hurt you and it actually pays them off because they are not scared of being cheated on.
• They get jealous too.
• They feel lonely and want more than they have.
• They don't want to be in the shoes of the main woman and they are scared of karma's law.

PAINFUL REALITIES OF BEING THE OTHER WOMAN

1. You can never be proud of your relationship with your man: Everything about the relationship has to be kept secret because you knew you are the second woman and consented to it. You have to play by the rules and have to keep your emotions in check whenever you are in public.This means no going out on dates in public, unless you want to be fuel for gossip. As the one being cheated with, your fellow thief will make sure that you will be far from prying eyes. You will treat each other as strangers when you are in public, but within closed doors, you own each other. In the long run, something like this would take its toll on anyone.
2. You will be stigmatized:  You are still safe to some extent as long as the relationship is kept secret but when people get to know you become stigmatized and you will be seen as a whore and home breaker.
3. You live in denial:  You have to deny that you are dating the man if there is a case of an allegation and this makes you feel guilty for denying the one you love.
4. You see the person you love at his convenience and this created for you boredom and loneliness: When you desire to be with this person you love, you may not be able to because he has to spend time with his family and unless you have other relationships you become lonely and bored. 
5. You have to work and walk by his timing: This means you have to wait for your lover’s go signal to do anything, such as the next time the two of you will get to see each other. The waiting game is such a difficult and, oftentimes, frustrating game to play because you are starved for whatever crumbs of affection your lover has to throw at you.
   Once your tryst is over, you’re left pining and waiting for the next call, which can take days or even weeks to arrive.
6. You have to deal with the fact that you have no life together: The only enjoyable moments you have together is what you lean on, you can not plan your life together because what you share is something that would go sooner or later.
7. You live in fear of being rejected: You will always have the fear that one day all you both shared would be gone as he'll have gone back fully to his main woman and any time he behaves strangely you think of yourself as the loser.
8. You are guilt-ridden. Many women who have entered these kinds of relationships have often complained of sleepless nights. They find themselves wracked with guilt, especially in those moments when they find themselves to be alone without their lover to comfort them. They are guilty on being the object of sin against another woman. Oftentimes, these women feel that this guilt is a one-way street.
9. You will always come after the main woman:  You are not the first so you are the option, he gives you the left over of what his wife won't have. The first few weeks of the relationship may be filled with love and happiness but as time goes on, it gets dawn on you that you don't belong there and you never will. You will see how the entire situation is affecting you as a person. You will know that he will not be there to comfort you during the days when you are feeling down. You cannot spend the holidays with him, and you cannot help but feel saddened by the fact that he is spending the holidays with his legitimate loved one. You cannot hold his hand when you feel like you need it the most, or put your arms around him whenever you feel lonely. 
10. You will freak out with jealousy: The problem with this part is that you may not be able to discuss or make him know how jealous you feel because you knew about her before you started out with him. Also you don't want him to feel insecure with you.
11. The relationship will end: This is the part the other woman never wants to think of but its inevitable and if it doesn't end well, you and your cheating partner may become enemies. You were secret lovers to begin with, and now you must part as strangers. While men have claimed that they are capable of loving more than one woman at the same time, he could only keep his affairs with his mistresses for a certain amount of time. Something such as this cannot last forever. Whether you will be the one who will want to call it quits, or your partner will be the one to initiate it, remember that there is nothing secret that can be hidden forever.

Many women who have found themselves in these precarious situations tend to seek therapy afterwards. There are those who have attested to the fact that being the other woman in the relationship is like committing social suicide. You tend to abandon whatever ideals you have set for yourself in exchange for a few moments of bliss.