The Pass Time Woman

You know you are his pass time wench when.

• There is no more communication except sex.
• When he begins to treat you with disrespect and makes his escapades known to you.
• The man you loved and he loved you is gone and your relationship is nothing than a sex meeting.
• When you are the one he calls when he needs help either physically or when he is emotionally unstable.
• He uses you to satisfy his lust and beats you up.
• He makes excuses for his cheating and never allows you to express yourself.
• He uses you (the other woman) when she doesn't say yes.
• He calls you when she refuses to bend. He texts you when she doesn't give it up. That’s the 
  reason for you being around. 
• You make up for her refusing to indulge in his nonsense. 
• She expects more from him but you are willing to accept his crumbs. 

A man that truly loves you would never want you to know of him flirting and even if you know he'll feel bad about it.

The Rule

• Don't compete with the other woman.
• Ignite those things that made him loved you from the start and once you notice that you are the other woman stop giving him your body.
• Don't go out of your way fighting for a man that does not love you if you do.
• There is the possibility he fell out of love maybe because of your(both of you) carelessness but then you shouldn't do whats not right to win a man back.
• Don't settle for the least part of a man's heart; you'll end up getting hurt.

What to do?
Don't make his see you as an attention seeker, make him chase you even after he has you because there is an innate disposition in every one to go after what they don't have.
Men love women who respect themselves so you should respect your self.  
If you love him truly, then you would inform him that second place is no option in the residence of your heart. 
You deserve a man that loves and values you and is not ready to loose you for the world, a man that is ready to go out of his way to show that he loves you.
A man that respects your body.
You are owed a real man, one who values your self-respect and dreads breaking your heart with his foolishly actions of greed. 
Allow that man to find himself and grow up.



Many of us turn cold after being made someone’s fool.
Take the time to define your love. Settle for nothing less than the best. 
Set the rules for entry into your heart because because not everyone wants the best for you.
Dont go into relationship with frustration because if you do, you'll get used over and over again.
Be careful on how you expose and portray yourself. Be a love than 
man has to earn.