Ladies!!! 12 things you should know about the married man you are making out with

One of the most frustrating and confusing situations one can find herself  in is getting over an amazing relationship with a married man. When a married man looks towards you for emotional support and love, the same things his own wife, apparently, doesn’t provide him, you end up falling in love, more with his emotional affair and than anything else but all of this tears you apart. Dating a married man is painful and demeaning. And at times, it can take years for you to accept the love of a genuine man you meet later in life. 

1. He may meet your financial need and you may meet his emotional and sexual needs but sweetie that's all he owes you.
2. If he has to choose between you and his wife, he'll choose her over and over: No matter how crazy  the married man you are dating or having sex with is about you, his wife and kids will always come first.
3. He values his wife a lot: No matter the escapades you two have, he values his wife and never wants her to know he is cheating with you.
4. You are not his only booty call or fuck buddy: If he can cheat on his wife with you then he'll definitely do the same with another lady. 
5. You will never be part of his future: This is an established fact, no matter the pain you take to be with him and to see him happy, his wife and children will be his future, the moment you stop giving him your body; the affection and financial assistance will begin to decrease and eventually end so stop wasting your time and energy. 
6. You can never be a replacement for his wife: Don't be deceived by these words that some men will say:  "if I have met you before I will not have married my wife" that is just a lie to make you feel they mean well for you, he'll choose his wife over and over, and that's why he is still with her.
7. Even if he leaves his wife, you will always be the other woman and he will never trust you: Are you surprised? Don't be sweetie, men think far than women. A man would think like if she knows I was married and dated me can she not date another married man? How am I sure that I am the only married man she is dating??
8. Married men don't really take dating single girls serious, and they expect you to cheat: That is just the truth, though they may not tell you but don't ever think the married man you are dating has 100% trust for you even when you know you are trust worthy.
9. He is not happy about the fact that he is cheating his wife:  Most married men are not happy that they are cheating their women, its just that they can't help being seduced and maybe they get frustrated by their wives, or even maybe she is not as attractive as she used to be but trust me he'll always go back home.
10. You're not a home wrecker, just an accomplice. Like it or not, you are a willing participant in a man violating his vows and betraying the trust of his wife -- not to mention grossly disappointing his children and making it difficult for them to see him as a role model.
11. He'll blame you for seducing him: Yes dearie, when he gets caught and entangled, he'll say the devil tempted him and by implication you are the devil. When people find themselves in compromising situations like "cheating" they never want to take responsibility and the devil becomes the tempter as if the devil was there when they were moaning (msheew).  If he is caught by his wife or conscience, don't be surprised if he tries to blame you and get you to take the fall. 
12. It would never end well and if it does i.e  "if he leaves his wife for you, then he will leave you for another young lady". Someone once said “All good things don’t really have to end, but when it does, it has to end in a bad way.