HOW TO FLIRT WITHOUT BEING SLUTTY

Someone asked me, how do I flirt without passing the wrong message or making guys think am a easy girl or a slut. 

So I decided to post this here other people with the same kind of issues.

• Set boundaries: No matter how wonderful you laugh and joke with guys, as a lady you need to be disciplined enough to know when to set boundaries.
• Smile: “Smiling is the easiest way to flirt,” says Lieberman. “It’s guaranteed to make you look a lot prettier, and you don’t have to prepare for it first. Another advantage to a smile is that it’s non-committal. Even without flirting, a lady that cant smile would chase guys far away from her and am sure you dont want that. 
• Don't overdo it: Flirting makes you lively and makes guys and even girls love you but over doing it is what spoils everything.
• Make eye contact -- then look away: “Making eye contact and holding it just a few seconds longer than a casual glance causes him to take notice of you and start to wonder what you may have meant by that,” says Lieberman. “It’s the cool ‘silent flirt’ that can make him want to know more.” No need to wink or lick your lips (ew!). A simple glance will do.
• Be an actual lady: Contrary to what you might think, you don’t need to be “one of the guys” -- in fact, be just the opposite! Be yourself. “Men are attracted to the feminine qualities of a woman, and will take you more seriously as a potential mate when you exhibit that. Plus, it will show him you’ll know how to act appropriately when you meet his mom!”
• When flirting dont allow sexual relationships: Don't allow him touch you in your sexually stimulating part when you are flirting. No kisses else you give him the wrong signal and even loose the chance of him actually asking you out because he would think that is how she is with every other guy.
• Keep your head up: No matter how close you and this guy have become, no matter how you flirt, let him know clearly that you guys are not dating. Mention it again and again and be firm with your rules so no guy would walk over you.
• Be expressive: No matter how you flirt with him, be expressive. Let your nay be nay and let your yeah be yeah. Guys are not magicians and its what you show them they accept. Let him know your flirting ends where it ends. Learn to use your eyes and your facial expressions to your advantage, and you won’t really need words to impress a guy and make him flirt with you.
• Give Space: the fact that you flirt with him does not make you his police and that's why you should not be too close else he see you as a pest that stings. 
• Bring up something from the news: Raise discussions that shows that you are an enlightened person too. Ask for his opinion on news and other interesting topics. "This shows you care about what he thinks,” says Allison. “It’s a great way to flirt and gives him an opportunity to enjoy being around you. Acknowledge his thoughts, even if you don’t agree. And be sure not to barge in with your own opinion, derailing his. Keep the conversation mutually respective. Stay away from slutty by not talking about sex -- at all.”
• Compliment him when there is need to, be open with him but have your privacy. When you are flirting with a guy dont let him ask you dumb questions and if he asks tell him politely that you cant answer him.

excerpt from lovepanky.