When something is not meant to be, no matter how hard you try, you end up being hurt and you realize that you are in a wrong relationship. It is better to walk away than go through emotional torture and eventual heartbreak just for the comfort of familiar faces.
It may prove difficult leaving a long-term relationship, even when our inner-wisdom tells us it's time to let go. At this point, we can choose to let go and endure the intense pain of leaving behind the familiar way of life to make way for a new chapter in our lives. Or we can stay and suffer a low-grade pain that slowly eats away at our heart and soul, like an emotional cancer. Until we wake up, one day and realize, we are buried so deep in the dysfunction of the relationship that we scarcely remember who we were and what we wanted and needed to be.
Moving on makes us realize how strong we were, it makes us realize our weaknesses and makes it possible to face life with a new aura of wisdom, confidence and maturity.
Moving on after we realize or pass through a disappointment whether in a relationship is the best thing.
Dont wallow in pain, sitting and crying your life out. You realize that in the end its all not worth it and afterall you learnt the lesson.
It is believed that "if you love something, set it free. If it's yours, it will definitely come back to you".
A relationship that makes you sad all the time is not a relationship that is worth your tears. For all you know that person you are crying on can be busy loving and trying to satisfy another person, or the person could even be making jest of you and you are wallowing in self-inflicted pain and agony.
Smile and move on in life with confidence because you have been granted another opportunity to prove how strong and independent you are emotionally and you are showing that no one determines how you feel per-time.
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