ROT of the day/What you should not do in a relationship.

• Secrets: Don't tell the person you are going out with your atm password, secrets about your family, business or anything for that matter. Tell them when you are sure they are serious with you and would not disappoint you.
• If you had to tell someone about a misunderstanding you two had, don't rush and tell the person you are dating. Be sure the person won't over act when they know.
• Don't tell them how good your ex was, whether in bed or any where. 
• Don't tell your date how their rivals are better than them. 
• I hate you: Don't ever make the mistake of tell your spouse that you hate them, maybe when you are angry.
• Don't tell your date that you miss your ex. (If you miss him/her that much what are you doing with me)If you need to tell someone that tell your friend.
• Don't compare yourself to your date's ex (you may be pushing them back subconsciously).
• I can do it myself:Don't turn down your date's offer to help, its OK to do that sometimes but don't make it every time.
• So immature: Don't tell your date that he/she is behaving childish. 
• My siblings says they don't like you:If your family disapproves of the person you are dating don't tell them immediately. Talk to your family about it, let them know how you feel for the person. If they show open hatred then you can tell him/her.
• Don't tell him everyone that ask you out: it makes him know guys are after you but in another way it makes him want to distrust you.
• I'll slap you: Don't ever threaten to slap your girlfriend or boyfriend. 
• Breakup: Don't threathen the person you are dating with breakup. It does not make sense and it makes the person feel insecure, it may also give them the notion that sooner or later the relationship would end and they'll start seeking options.
• Don't ever insult your spouse parent for any reason.